Ghosting is insulting to the receiver. It’s as if you weren’t even worth one properly let go. But, why do people think it’s ok to ghost?
This is a result of fear of conflict when having to confront others. Ghosting is a convenient way to avoid this entirely. However, running away from someone does not necessarily cause them to stop chasing you.
The guilt from taking such a spineless way out of a relationship can have a long-lasting negative effect on the person who ghost. This behaviour also further strengthen the distress or anxiety that confrontation may cause.
26286511 hours ago
Watch your steps, because you can find amazing things down there☺️ So wie diesen Seestern und die Muscheln! 💖 Ich liebe es am Strand nach Muscheln zu suchen, und hab auch einige tolle Exemplare auf Mauritius entdeckt🐚🌴 Den Seestern habe ich von einem Hotelmitarbeiter bekommen, der diesen bereits vertrocknet, gefunden hatte. Habe allerdings auch noch lebende Seesterne sehen können, die hab ich dann aber im Wasser gelassen 😊
9153411 hours ago
These hard times will pass and you will become stronger 💪🏼deal with life and it’s obstacles so you can keep living 🔥
As you may be noticing I’m just reposting old photos from my feed but with new captions 😬😆 I came across this one and oh my goodness I loooove it! 😍 So many good memories attached to it. 💕 Anyyyways, so this week on Thursday I’m at school really late and on Friday I have a bunch of appointments after school and then I head straight off to youth group. As I was thinking about these two days I realized that I wouldn’t be able to make it to the gym on Thursday or Friday. Key words Thursday and Friday. Even though Tuesday and Thursday are normally my cardio days I moved one of my cardio days to Friday because I can do my sprints during my spare block and my gym day to Tuesday so that I could still be active every day this week. Pre planning is key! I planned my week out on Sunday so that I was ready and I wouldn’t find myself stuck do to a lack of preparation. Of course there’s gonna be days you just can’t fit a workout in, and that’s perfectly fine, as what you do MOST of the time is what makes the biggest difference! You can definitely avoid this dilemma most of the time however by being prepared! Use your phones calendar or write down in a journal how your weeks going to look! You’ll be much more productive and your brain’s going to hurt less not having to focus on last minute fixes! 👌🏼😊
Got my solo for solo and ensemble in today! I had to play at a basketball, so I had to air play but ya do what ya gotta do 🤷♀️
Day 7 of 100
Not going to lie, have had a really hard time staying motivated because I've been down the past couple of weeks. Anywho, I just wanted to let y'all know that it's completely normal to not feel motivated all the time and If you feel un-motivated it's okay- just do your best to practice a little everyday to get motivated again. It happens to all musicians (It's essentially our version of writers block)
I started out having the worst day. My car wouldn’t start and ended up needing a new battery. I had to find a ride to work, find someone to take Riley to the sitter and try to figure out how to get us home again later. Work wasn’t the best, I was stressed out and continued on to get a migraine. Not my kinda day. I was ready to throw in the towel by 9:00am and now at 9:00pm I’m saying thank you Lord for blessing me with my people!
I have a brother with a kind heart who came and tried to jump my car (which didn’t work) who then drove me to work and took Riley to the sitter. Thanks @szearfaus for getting up early to help your big sis and niece out. Love you much 💙 •
I’m so thankful God put a loving handy man in my life who was able to pick me up, fix my car on my lunch break, and bring my stress level back down to 0. @jberkheimer78 thank you, thank you, thank YOU for all that you do for me even when it’s not fun or convenient. I can’t tell you how much I love and appreciate you. I’m so glad you’re mine ❤️
I have the best MK director who sends me uplifting, happy mail from NC. I loved coming home to it! I’m so glad I get to do life with you @kjkantz and continue my MK journey with you as my mentor and leader! Your love and belief pours into me daily 💕
Lastly I’m so thankful for new friends and opportunities. @08cortney31 I literally did a happy dance after you left! I loved getting to know more about you and share this opportunity with you. I see BIG things happening 🤩
Just because the day starts out bad doesn’t mean it has to end that way. Count your blessings. See the positive. Tell satan NOT TODAY. 🙅🏼♀️ •
You know how I spoke about yesterday as being the most “depressing” day of the year. Yup, well today with the traffic from the mess the storm made on the roads left me in a much crazier mood than I could’ve even imagined I would’ve felt when I woke up this morning. One thing I try my hardest but cannot seem to manage is my anger on the roads when normally it takes me 20 mins to be to work and on this particular day it took me an hour and forty five minutes. Yeah, meditation was a staple in my Tuesday let me tell ya. I had to meditate on the way to drop my child off to daycare. A five minute drive that took twenty. Then I meditated the entire way to work for another hour and some until I got to work in a calm state. I figured it would have cleared up by the time I got off work. Nope.....meditated the next hour and a half to get home on my regular twenty minute drive. It was a day my friends to say the least. The key in a stressful or anxious situation is to think or do something positive, now when that doesn’t work, meditate and do so until you have completely calmed yourself down. It really can make or break the rest of your day, the way you deal with a stressful situation. And meditating my friends is a lifesaver for stress management. Also, lifting weights burns off pent up energy 😉 I know I’m all about positivity and still am and always will be but sharing roads with those too scared to touch the gas and that would stop in the middle of an ice hill full of traffic like today really burns my ass. End of my rant. I feel so light now. Night 👌🏼🙏. #positivethinking#vibes#igers#meditation#health#motivation#mood#calm#energy#healing#staypositive#weights#follow#exercise#hadtogetitoffmychest